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Research suggests that: Between 2 to 3.4 million people in the UK are affected by some type of eating disorder. 75% of that number is female. The problem of eating disorders, is worldwide. The long history of eating disorders in women comes from shaming women from enjoying food and having to maintain certain body standards.  […]

Having to see myself as physically beautiful or attractive is actually exhausting. Don’t blame me. It wasn’t a word I knew until I was being deceived by those who wanted something from me. It’s a foreign feeling that I’ve been trying to get on board with. I have to stand in front of a mirror […]

Loving oneself is really really hard for a lot of people. Loving yourself through someone’s eyes is much easier. It’s one of the most attractive things about being in loving relationships. We love and believe that person, more than we love ourselves often times. So when they say good stuff to us, we can also […]

The struggle to balance my need for financial self-sustenance, fulfilling my calling, and being grounded outside of material things has been real. My husband makes money. It’s accessible to me. I’m not earning significantly at the moment. That gets to me. It’s been about 4 months since I last earned any income from my company […]

Dear empathetic person… First and foremost, you’re empathetic, not empathic. You’re not an empath either. Only aliens are empaths. I see people calling themselves empaths, and I have been resisting the urge to DM them to correct the grammar. But on my blog, it’s a public service announcement haha. That said, being overly empathetic is […]

Those 3 words. Not “I love you”. “I Don’t Know”. Simple yet complicated. A lot of people find it hard to say. And it is understandable and relatable why. For so many, it’s social conditioning. Our education system is based on knowing rather than discovery or curiosity. We do not encourage vulnerability in any way […]

People are so quick to point out that there are so many toxic women out there with high self-confidence that they can’t back up. To me, that sounds like the male gender that has bravado and the highest sense of self-esteem. When they describe charisma in a man, it usually means how he carries himself […]